Palm Sunday

This palm-print Dorothy Perkins dress ticks almost everything I want in a summer dress.  It features an adorable but not over-the-top print, wide straps (I can wear a bra!), perfect knee-length (I can wear bike shorts under to prevent chub-rub), breathable fabric.  It’s just perfect.  The only thing it doesn’t have is pockets, but I’ll let that go because the rest of it is so fantastic.

It’s a great plus size summer dress and I wore it on a hot sunday to run to the farmers market to buy some gorgeous fresh veggies and flowers. The photos are inside because my partner S who usually takes my pics is out of town - I think they still turned out well!

I hope you all had a beautiful weekend (and a long one for my US readers).

Palm-print Dress - Dorothy Perkins - Size 16 Tall, Available here
Shoes - Dansko, Size 42
Necklace - etsy, gift
Pyrite Bracelet - Truss and Ore
Gold stack bracelets - Nordstrom Rack
Glasses - SEE Eyewear
Lipstick - Revlon Audacious

BRAND NEW Alfred Angelo Plus Size Blush Wedding Dress FOR SALE! 

Hi folks!  So I went a little overboard and bought a few dresses for my wedding.  Ultimately I decided this wasn’t the perfect dress for me, but it’s absolutely gorgeous and I’d love to find it a perfect bride.

Style 8527 from the Modern Vintage Collection. Sheer layered blush mesh with floral detail and velvet bow. Comes with optional spaghetti straps (included in the packaging)

Size 16W. Brand new in packaging. Unaltered

Retails for $399 plus tax - which made mine $486 total. If you buy it in store you have to wait 12-16 weeks to receive it.

I’m selling it for $300 which includes shipping via FedEx to the U.S. I will ship elsewhere, but please inquire about shipping costs.

Leave a message in my ask-box or email inthethickofitfashion @ gmail with your email address and I’ll be in touch.

Happy Anniversary ModCloth - and a $100 giveaway!

Last June, I sat in a room filled with plus size bloggers listening and talking to folks at ModCloth about rebooting/ growing their plus size line.  I was thrilled at the possibility of more plus size clothing options, but wary - we fat folks heard this before. And despite talking about it online and among ourselves, it seemed that a lot of retailers hadn’t been listening.  But ModCloth wanted to know our thoughts - they did the research and knew that 88% of plus size women agree that they would buy more clothing if trendy options were available.  

Thank you to ModCloth for listening to us.  I have been absolutely thrilled with the products they have produced this past year.  And it’s only going to continue. Recently, I featured some of their wonderful bridal and bridal party plus size items in my recent Femme Wedding post

For the ModCloth Plus size Anniversary, I’m giving away a $100 ModCloth gift certificate.  To enter: Follow InTheThickofIt and Reblog this post and include a link or image of your favorite piece in the ModCloth Plus Size CollectionWinner will be chosen at random from reblog responses on Monday 6/30/2014 at 10:00am CST and posted on

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siouxsie and the banshees sunday

Today I got dressed up for a photoshoot that didn’t happen with a local pal and I figured since I was looking cute, I might as well share it here.  This outfit is nothing revolutionary - but it’s how I dress when I’m just feeling ME.  These plus size skinny jeans from Old Navy are way too short on me really, but I love pairing them with tall heels to make my legs look a million miles long. It was a windy day, so my hair is wind-blown but I sort of love how it adds to the rocker look. And this siouxsie and the banshees shirt is one I got from an ex a million years ago and I’ve treasured it ever since.  

siouxsie and the banshees shirt - gift
Denim Jacket - GAP, XL
Gold Heels - Sam Edelman 
Black skinny jeans - Old Navy, Sz 18
porcupine earrings - etsy
Necklace - gift
quartz ring - stone and honey
bracelet - forever 21

I’m at 5’9” 225# fat femme!